How Nar-Anon Works
Nar-Anon Family Groups are for those who know or have known the feeling
of desperation concerning the addiction of someone close. We too have travelled
this unhappy road and through the program found answers that can lead to serenity
and peace of mind. When you become part of a Family Group you are no longer
alone but among friends who understand your problems as few others can.
The
comfort and support we offer can help you make changes towards a better
way of life. We will respect your confidence and anonymity as we trust you
will respect ours.
This is not a religious program but a spiritual way of
life based on a Twelve Step/Twelve Tradition philosophy embracing all beliefs.
We have found that working these Steps and Traditions can bring solutions to many
problems. We urge you to take this program seriously. Feel free to ask questions
after the meeting, keeping an open mind and attending as many meetings as
possible.
Nar-Anon Family Groups believe that addiction is a disease.
The realization that we are powerless over this disease frees us from a misguided
sense of responsibility towards the addict. We ask for the courage and wisdom
to see things as they really are and the honesty and willingness to do something
about ourselves with the help of a Higher Power. Then, and only then, can
we begin to be of any help to ourselves and our loved ones.
THE AIMS
OF NAR-ANON
The purpose of Nar-Anon is for the comfort and care of families
and friends whose lives have been affected through the use of mind altering
substances by a loved one.
The primary aim of Nar-Anon is for the
recovery of the families and friends of users whose lives have been subjected to
the completely unacceptable behaviour of the user. To come to terms with this
trauma and distress helps us in regaining a degree of serenity and happiness.
A
further aim of Nar-Anon is to encourage understanding, caring support
and changed attitudes towards the user in an endeavour to improve the family
situation. The user may see this as positive support and it may possibly contribute
towards his or her recovery.
HOW CAN NAR-ANON HELP?
Practical
guidance in coping with the user
Collective support of the group
Recovery of our own lives
HOW DO NAR-ANON MEETINGS WORK?
The
only requirement is that your life has been affected by the drug use of another
person.
Meetings are completely anonymous as only first names
are used.
Meetings last for an hour and a half, during which time members
can share their problems and worries with others without being interrupted.
After the meeting we enjoy a cup of tea or coffee together. This is a valuable
opportunity to discuss your problem with somebody you can relate to.
There are no dues for membership. Nar-Anon is self supporting through voluntary
contributions.
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